After spending some time in the orchard with Father Efrem, we went for a walk down the winding road I had climbed up four days earlier when I arrived. We passed a trailer full of rocks being pulled by a tractor going uphill toward the monastery. Through the window sitting in the driver’s seat was Father Erasmus, a monk I had met in the workshop one day as I was having tea and editing images. In the passenger seat was one of the men, Toni, who is in the rehabilitation program. They stopped for a moment to greet us and a conversation in Macedonian ensued.
We continued on until we arrived at the bottom of the hill where the monastery restaurant sits. Father Efrem called to have espresso brought out to us as we chatted with two workers breaking rocks for the new church being constructed at the monastery. I tried to ignore how I couldn’t feel my hands at this point as we stood there awaiting the drinks. The engine of the tractor nearing the bottom of the hill was just loud enough to hear over the blowing wind. Coming around the last curve of the road, Toni was walking and wiping his head. Father Efrem called to order more espresso for the two as they made their way toward us. He was bleeding from his forehead. Moments before, as he was walking behind the trailer to pick up rocks that had fallen out, one shot up from the tractor’s wheel and struck him. He stood there in the cold blowing wind and drank a cup of espresso as his face bled. The blood dried before it could reach his piercing eyes. I had never seen eyes like Toni’s. They were deeply black and unforgiving.
The orchard is a large open area overlooked by a small church the monks built. It lies at the end of a dirt path on the side of the mountain about a three minute walk from the monastery. As you enter through the wooden gate held up by a small stick, there are ten dog houses standing opposite each other, five on each side. Attached by metal chains are the native Macedonian Karaman dog, a highly revered ancient shepherd breed that was once on the brink of extinction. The monks keep them as pets and visit them daily, struggling to restrain the robust mammals as they lunge toward each other in the dirt and dusty gravel. These beautiful creatures have sharp temperaments. I learned quickly which ones I could approach and which I could not. They even had to be separated from each other at times.
There was a fire burning in a rusty barrel where some of the men sat next to the dog houses. Under the barrel was a group of Karaman puppies who were missing the fur on their backs from laying too close to the fire. I sat down and shared an orange with one of the men who is tasked to take care of the dogs. He didn’t speak English but we used a form of sign language we came up with at that moment to communicate. We somehow found things to laugh at although we didn’t understand each other. I found a way to adapt to the environment and surroundings. I lived like them even if just for a short period of time. I felt I became one with the space I inhabited. The peace, love, selflessness, and all the acceptance had found its way to pull me in. Their lives were on full display completely free of presumption.
What’s special about this place is that it doesn’t matter who you are, where you come from, or what your reason for being there is. You create a bond with the people and landscape that is expressed in ways that make you let go of judgement and fully accept who they are because they fully accept who you are. There are things that are unspoken, but understood, without language. Our perception and interpretation of the human condition we all face became synonymous. We all struggle with desire, lust, envy, sadness, despair; emotions that make us human. Acknowledging that struggle exists and not being afraid to show transparency and vulnerability when trying to overcome those emotions - that is the true topic of this story.